In my first year of recovery, my friend JW used to say that every person he came in contact with had something to teach him.
Although, this concept appealed to me and seemed like a great idea , it puzzled me. How could I learn from a using addict? What did a dry drunk have to teach me? So one day, over a game of chess, I asked him. What do you mean? How can everyone be my teacher? Certainly, I will meet people who I should not pattern my behavior after.
He just smiled and said “If nothing else, I can learn what NOT to do.”
As simple a concept as it was, it was very profound at that time and is still a part of my recovery today. It helps me practice tolerance toward my fellow recovering brothers and sisters and to keep the focus on myself instead of everyone else.
So, in the spirit of this golden nugget of wisdom. I dedicate this video to my friend JW. I love you man!
